Why I Decided To Quit Telling My Story With Project Life.
Hi and welcome to my blog. As most of you know, I've been specifically scrapbooking the Project Life way for 13 years using Becky Higgins pocket pages. In that 13 years I have gotten 0 completed albums. 0! I came so close in 2012. So, I've decided to give up on it. Not just for that reason but many reasons...
Last year I watched Stacy Julian's 100 days, Camera Roll Ready on Instagram. If you get a chance-it's free, you won't believe what your iPhone can do!
So, last month I signed up for her class about my iPhotos App and IOS 18, called Rock Your Scroll. OMG! I can't believe all the things I DID NOT KNOW about my photos and my phone. And I know a lot!
Anyway, I was listening to one of the lessons and she stated "your kids do not want your photos"! You know what? She's right! I have been following one of her very first classes call Photo Freedom and in that, you store all your photos in your computer in folders and files. Mine were all neatly stored by months in albums which were in folders by year. AND THEN, I had folders labeled "All About Us" and inside I had albums titled Me, My Family, Paul, Paul's Family, Eric & Family, Steve etc.. Then I had folders with albums inside titled "Places We Go, Things We Do, Arts & Crafts, Celebrations & Holidays" etc, etc, etc. Thousands of photos on my computer, EHD, AND Dropbox. Heaven forbid my computer crashed and I lost all those photos.
So, in taking this recent class, not only did she say my kids do not want my photos, she said in another lesson, and this one was THE ONE..."A well managed photos library ABSOLOVES YOU OF THE OBLIGATION to do any kind of chronological documenting or scrapbooking"! I was floored. I mean this was a gut punch. I started thinking..WHAT AM I DOING? Who's going to want all these scrapbooks of my life? Who cares?
I texted my kids. No, they don't want them. And I have noticed that they don't even look at them. I've been scrapping the "everyday" stuff years, thinking my grandkids or even my kids would want to know my thoughts on things. Because to be honest, I'd see pics of my mom dressed up ready to go out and I'd think "I wonder where she's going". Or I'd see a photo of my dad in a shiny new car..and I'd love to know the details. But, that's just me. Maybe because my parents lost 90% of our photos when they traveled from Montreal to California and got in a car accident towing a trailer. That most of the photos blew away across the bridge and into the water, and I have maybe one baby photo of me. I have none of my mom and dad when they were little.
Moving forward..and after the initial shock, Eric helped me process all this. He called and we talked and then he sent me a list of questions (which he did in like 10 minutes)! to help me come to grips with not only reality but my thoughts and feelings. I'm so grateful for him and the time he put in to helping me.
I'm now excited to be focusing on traditional scrapbooking, like the kids, grandkids and my all about me albums. I know, my kids would probably rather have digital albums than paper but I'm a paper girl! I love cutting it and punching it and gluing it down. Painting it or embossing it, doesn't matter..it's fun!
I did Ali Edward's class in 2023 called "A Week In The Life" and LOVED IT! I have that album here on my blog I think it was June of 23. This year I may do "A Day In The Life". I'm also in the process of documenting Ali Edwards December Daily..where you take a photo every day in December or leading up to the 25th and document it. I'm having a lot of fun with that (and I don't care if after I die, everything gets chucked out the window). These little albums I will be taking with me to an assisted living or a nursing home, and I'll be able to look back a remember the good times.
Now I haven't figured out what I'm going to do with my Project Life albums. I may go through them and recreate some pages for my All About Me or the kids' albums without documenting the everyday stuff. But I still need to figure out what I'm going to do with all the 12x12 albums and pocket page inserts. I can sell the blank pockets but do I empty the photos out of the 13 albums I have and throw them away? Maybe. The one thing I have is time and I don't have to decide right now. It's all good.
Yesterday I spent the day creating Elliott's 1st year album. So fun!
It has pockets and flip outs etc. I ordered another one so I can make one for Ethan. I also ordered some girly paper and little baby boy paper and some embellishments. It's going to be a lot of fun! I'll see how these Folio albums turn out and then decide on little Ensley.
I also decided to journal with my Daphne's Diary Journal. I realized how much of a time-sucker Project Life was. I haven't even journaled in my new, beautiful diary!
So, here is my very last Project Life page. Even this month I was behind, but now I feel free! Free from the guilt of not finishing or working on something else when I knew I wasn't caught up.
It's funny but awesome at the same time, I pulled a Tarot Card the other day after talking with Eric & Jenn about my decision to end Project Life.
This is a beginners set from St. Soleil called Lucid Dreams Tarot. It's gorgeous and I love it so much. Paul got it for me for Christmas one year. Anyway..I pulled the Ace of Wands and read:
"It's a powerful card that symbolizes new beginnings, inspiration, and creative energy. It suggests that you have a great opportunity to harness your creative energy. It's a reminder to trust in your instincts, that you are ready to take on new challenges and projects with enthusiasm.
HOW COOL IS THAT??
As always, thanks for stopping by.